About B.I.A
At Brothers In Arms (B.I.A.), we run transformational retreats and events designed to inspire young men to take ownership of their lives and strive for lasting, positive change. Every B.I.A experience is built on a powerful atmosphere of brotherhood, challenge, and encouragement—where anyone who walks through the door immediately feels welcomed, supported, and uplifted.
In today’s world, it’s easier than ever for young men to feel lost—trapped in cycles of distraction, instant gratification, and disconnection. Many struggle to find purpose, meaningful friendships, or a clear sense of direction. We’re here to change that.
We believe that real growth begins with personal responsibility—by developing discipline, building strong character, and committing to the daily pursuit of becoming the best version of yourself. Growth doesn’t happen overnight, but with consistent effort, young men can create a life filled with purpose, fulfillment, and direction. Through our retreats, we aim to give the tools, mindset, as well as the actionable steps needed to bring these values into their daily lives.
Another core pillar of B.I.A. is genuine, lifelong friendship & brotherhood. Our retreats are intentionally designed to foster real connections through shared experiences, engaging challenges, and meaningful conversations. Whether it’s through intense physical training or reflective group discussions, every moment is crafted to encourage connection, and growth—side by side.
We’re building a movement of young men committed to growth, service, and leadership. Our mission is to nurture a generation that not only seeks to improve themselves, but is also dedicated to uplifting others—serving their families, communities, and ultimately, contributing to a better world.
We’re not here to give all the answers, nor are we a replacement for family or faith. What we are is a brotherhood—a source of support, motivation, and inspiration for young men ready to step up and lead their lives with integrity
If you’d like to see more of what Brothers In Arms is all about, head over to Daemang’s YouTube channel, where you can get an inside look at our events and experience the energy that makes B.I.A. so powerful!
We’re all gonna make it.
Growth Mindset
True Friendship
Integrity
Discipline
Self-belief
Get to know the Team at B.I.A
We’re blessed to have a passionate and growing team of volunteers who help bring Brothers In Arms to life.
Scroll down to meet the team👇
Alex
Alex
Coach & Mentor
With a professional background as a sales manager, Alex has been a key part of Brothers In Arms since day one. Originally from Croydon, London, he brings a strong foundation of leadership, discipline, and communication—both in his career and within the B.I.A. community.
A massive advocate for staying active, Alex has a passion for physical fitness. From weightlifting and football to more recent pursuits like Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and Muay Thai, he embraces challenge as a tool for growth. Whether he’s leading a retreat activity or mentoring a younger brother, Alex leads by example—consistently striving for excellence in all areas of life.
Len
Len
Retreat Coordinator
At Brothers In Arms, Len plays a vital role behind the scenes, running the administrative and operational side of all our events ensuring everything runs smoothly.
Professionally, he manages a private investment portfolio, actively trading across different financial markets. Outside of trading, Len is passionate about health and wellbeing, with a strong interest in mindfulness and nutrition, he aspires to one day open a health and wellness spa, combining his love for holistic health with his entrepreneurial spirit.
Daemang
Daemang
Director
Daemang is someone who values family and faith above all else. He sets high standards in every area of his life uplifting those around him.
He runs his own YouTube channel and creates engaging social media content, alongside working as a freelance videographer—using his creative talents to inspire others.
Allister
Allister
Music Coordinator & Team Leader
Allister is a cornerstone of the Brothers In Arms team and a natural leader. Having grown up looking up to his older brothers, he deeply understands the value of strong role models.
A recent Computer Science graduate from King’s College London, Allister now works as a junior software engineer. He is also actively pursuing his passion for music. As a guitarist, drummer, and vocalist, he shares his faith and message through his music, with the goal of turning it into a full-time career.
Keep an eye out for Alli — he’s a one-of-a-kind talent.
Tiger
Tiger
Director
Tiger leads our retreats with purpose and vision. After graduating, he served in the Metropolitan Police in London, where he witnessed first hand the challenges facing today’s society. His time in the force led him to realise that real change starts by working directly with youth and within families. Inspired by the words of Frederick Douglass—“It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men”—Tiger committed himself to youth mentorship and leadership.
He recently moved to America following his faith, and is now an assistant pastor in California, while also directing Brothers In Arms retreats across the USA!
Benjamin
Benjamin
Co-founder & Team Leader
Benjamin is one of the founders of Brothers In Arms and a driving force behind its mission and values. A competitive track athlete with aspirations of going professional, he brings a high-performance mindset to everything he does.
In addition to his athletic pursuits, Benji works in the health and supplement industry as a sales representative, combining his knowledge of wellness with a passion for helping others improve their physical health.
Outside of work, he leads the youth group at his local church, where he has mentored many young men—supporting their growth both mentally and spiritually.
With his passion for sport and genuine love for connecting with others, Benjamin is a true pillar of the culture at B.I.A.
Pedro
Pedro
Team Leader
Pedro is one of the team leaders at the B.I.A retreats, having already led three retreat teams this year. With a strong sense of accountability and commitment, he continues to support and challenge his team members long after each retreat ends—ensuring they stay focused on their goals and personal growth.
He is currently studying Law at the University of Warwick, where he also serves as the captain of the American football team.
Jamie
Jamie
Sports Coordinator
Jamie first joined Brothers In Arms as a participant, and his growth and energy quickly made him a natural fit for the team. Now a valued staff member, he serves as our Sports Coordinator—bringing the fun, energy, and competition to every retreat by organising games and physical activities that bring the brotherhood together.
Outside of B.I.A., Jamie is an ambitious young entrepreneur with a passion for cars. He buys, repairs, and sells vehicles with the goal of opening his own dealership in the near future!
Aryan
Team Leader
Aryan is one of our dedicated team leaders at Brothers In Arms, bringing thoughtfulness, maturity, and a calm presence to every retreat. He holds a Master’s degree in Philosophy from King’s College London and is currently completing his teacher training course to become a high school teacher.
Recently married and now a proud father at 24, Aryan leads by example—balancing responsibility and family. His depth of thought and steady leadership make him a trusted mentor within the B.I.A. community.
Older Brother Speakers
Bunjin
Older Brother Speaker
Bunjin
Older Brother Speaker
Bunjin is one of the older brother figures at Brothers In Arms and has been helping at our retreats for over a year. A former professional footballer, his athletic career was cut short by injury—but that setback became the catalyst for a new chapter in business.
Since then, Bunjin has become a successful entrepreneur in the fields of investment management and trading. He brings a wealth of experience and insight, offering young men practical wisdom on achieving their goals and developing the mindset required for long-term success.
The guidance he provides is truly invaluable—and it’s always inspiring to watch participants gather around him, eager to learn from his journey in business.
Kenneth
Older Brother Speaker
Kenneth
Older Brother Speaker
Kenneth is one of the main speakers at Brothers In Arms and a long-time mentor to many members of the team. A Senior Software Engineer at ZOE, he has built a successful and well-established career, balancing professional excellence with a commitment to mentorship and service.
Recently becoming a father, Kenneth brings a calm wisdom and grounded maturity to the team. His presence, both on and off the stage, offers steady guidance and thoughtful insight to the young men at our retreats.
What Does a Typical Day Look Like on a B.I.A Retreat?
Watch the video and cross reference with the glossary below!
Morning Exercises
We start each day with light stretching and early morning exercise. Getting outside in the sun and into nature helps wake up the body and prepares us mentally and physically for the day ahead.
Morning Reading
We’ve got the body flowing with the morning exercises, now to get the mind firing! We read inspirational content everyday to set the tone for the day and then discuss it in teams.
Breakfast
Eggs, Fruit, Oats! The boys will need the energy for a jam packed day ahead.
Music Time
Before we dive into the first content of the day it’s tradition to hit a couple songs led by the BIA band! The karaokes are always fun and it’s a great way to raise the energy before we dive into a 30 minute talk.
Daily Talk
These are always short and sweet. Given by one of our core team or guest speakers, our talks are always uplifting and thought provoking. The goal is to provide the boys with a framework or concept that they can take home and implement into their daily lives.
Lunch
The boys enjoy a delicious meal prepared by our amazing kitchen staff!
Sports
The group sports sessions tend to be the highlight of the retreat for the boys. Capture the flag, tug of war, relay races and dragon’s tail are a few of the staples at BIA. Each sports session is an opportunity for the boys to win points for their team so it’s all to play for!
Guided Free Time
This is an opportunity for the boys to do whatever they want! Some choose board games, some play sports and some join activities run by the team leaders like Muay Thai classes, Table Tennis Tournaments or a Debating Club.
Dinner
A delicious home cooked dinner always hits the spot after sports!
Meditation
We close each day with a group meditation to give the boys the chance to wind down. It’s an opportunity for them to practice the skill of mindfulness and being more present on the retreat.
BONUS:
Each day has a special activity thrown in! Whether it’s a campfire evening, our infamous Challenge Day or the Performance night that’s dear to our hearts – the participants get treated to a unique schedule each day!